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Cory Silverberg

One Thing You Don't Need for Sex

By February 20, 2012

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A few weeks ago I got an email from a reader who was at a loss at what to do with her boyfriend's soft penis. She had a bunch of other questions, so I felt like I should address those first, but her being flummoxed in the face of flaccidity left me frustrated.

Without a doubt the most freeing sexual realization I made as an adult was that you don't need an erection to have sex. You don't even need a penis! I could be forgiven for thinking otherwise. It's the very crux of heterocentrism, and it's a message you get from all corners. But I learned my lesson, and it's one that has informed not only my personal but my professional life ever since.

To be clear, I'm not down on penises. Some of my best friends...oh whatever. I think they are great. But the idea that your partner not having an erection means you can't have sex is a problem. So for that reader, and anyone else out there who may be genuinely confused about what to do with a soft penis, I put together a few sex tips.

How to Play with a Soft Penis.

Related - Sexual Activity Guide.

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Comments
March 1, 2012 at 7:41 am
(1) Kamagra says:

Really these tips are very helpful. Thanks for updating.

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