Which One of These Is Not Like the Other: Virginity, the G Spot, and Anal Sex
Wednesday May 30, 2012
I don't often go to speak on college campuses but when I do I'm struck by the questions I get. I should say that I consider it one of ... Read More
The Risks of Monogamy
Wednesday May 23, 2012
I've always been a little uncomfortable with the way that social scientists talk about sexual activity and sexual risk. I understand that when you are trying to make change ... Read More
Solo Performance
Monday May 21, 2012
One of my favorite parts of blogging for National Masturbation Month is writing about masturbation scenes in mainstream movies. Six years ago when I began this blog I had ... Read More
Discount Sex Drugs for Soliders - Is This What Support Looks Like?
Wednesday May 16, 2012
May 19th is Armed Services Day (also called Armed Forces Day but I'll mention both since it's not clear who is winning that pr battle). Growing up in ... Read More
Talking About the Porn Talk
Monday May 14, 2012
An article in the Times last week raised the complicated issue of talking with children about pornography. It was nice to see it there since it's been a reality ... Read More
Doing It Solo
Friday May 11, 2012
One can never know for sure what statistics about our online searching habits mean. Does the trending of a search term related to a celebrity illness or breakup "tell" ... Read More
Masturbation Month Turns 17
Monday May 7, 2012
In 1994 when President Bill Clinton fired Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders for answering yes to a question about whether masturbation was an appropriate topic to be addressed in sexual ... Read More

