What defines advanced masturbation, as opposed to beginner masturbation? Because masturbation is all about pleasing yourself, when it comes to evaluating what makes for great masturbation technique you are both the judge and jury.
But hundreds of years of masturbation myths have left many at a loss for ways to spice up their masturbation routine. If you've already covered the basics of but feel like you're in a self-love rut, here's some masturbation inspiration .
Use Sex Toys for Stimulation and Fantasy
More and more sex toys are being sold as relationship enhancers. But there are few tools as well suited for a job as sex toys are for masturbation. For some of us sex toys provide a kind of consistent stimulation we need to get over the top. For all of us they can provide extra physical and mental stimulation that takes our solo sex lives to the next level.
Read more: Sex toys can enhance masturbation fantasy technique.
Voyeur Self
When you masturbate what do you see? What are you actually attending to with your senses? If you are someone who falls deep inside yourself, one way to shake up your masturbatory practice is to become a voyeur, of yourself. If you're sighted you can try do this literally, with the use of mirrors or recording equipment. If you aren't, or if watching yourself is too much, there are other ways to focus your aroused attention on the hottness that is you.
Read more: Watch your self during masturbation to learn more about response and pleasure.
Talk Dirty to Yourself
Carol Queen, author of the highly recommended Exhibitionism for the Shy suggests that the best way to get comfortable with talking dirty is to do it when you masturbate. It can also be an amazing way of spicing up your masturbation, and loosening you up in general.
Read more: Explore role play and masturbation fantasy through sexy self talk.
Exploring Taboo Fantasy
The fact that masturbation is private and that you are the only person you need to consider when masturbating means it can be an excellent place to explore the limits of your sexual desires. We live in a culture with strong sexual taboos which we learn almost invisibly from an early age. While many would never want to have sex that falls into these culturally taboo categories, most of us imagine it at times. Fantasy during masturbation can be a safer way to explore what we do and don't want.
Read More: Using masturbation to explore taboo sexual fantasies.
Trying New Masturbation Sex Positions
Most people think of sex positions as something you need to figure out with a partner. But a sex position is any position you're in when you are having sex. And masturbation is a kind of sex. Still, if you think of masturbation as just a utilitarian act, something that must be done, you're unlikely to bring a kind of Kama Sutra creativity to it. Taking your masturbation from beginner to advanced means putting in the time to explore other physical options for self pleasure.
Read more: Getting creative with masturbation sex positions.
