The dazzling faux gems around the base of the Velvet Jewel add a little holiday sparkle to the affair. But the real treat is this simple but powerful waterproof vibrator that is guaranteed to please. As sex toys become more complicated (and expensive), it’s good to remember that hard plastic vibrators have been creating holiday cheer for years. $15
Anyone who has renovated a kitchen knows that knobs make all the difference. Finally there is a way for the design-minded kinky person to express themselves on their kitchen cabinets and bedroom dresser drawers. Each piece is spin cast of high-quality, lead-free pewter and hand finished by the artist, Peter G. Conley. Choose from five different designs Heels, 69, Full Moon, Peter Pull, Eve, Adam, and Hands Tied. $14.50-$27
Forget the myths about men and sex toys and slip a little Stroke 29 in the stockings of all the men in your life. This thick long lasting cream is designed specifically for masturbation and celebrates the joys of male solo sex, an activity that can be much more than the utilitarian necessity we conceive it to be. Available in a nice blue tub or travel pillow packs ($2 or $24).
Each of the 50 cards in this deck features an illustration, a verse from the Kama Sutra and some advice on sexual technique. Explore the deck together or split it up, and leave cards for each other to add an element of surprise. This gift is less about information and more about inspiration, but makes for a fun and non-explicit addition to any stocking. $15
Remind yourself and your friends how funny sex can be with this great sex game that is part charades, part Pictionary, and a whole lot of fun. Two teams compete to guess risqué terms and phrases which range from mild to hot, with a lot of room for double entendres in between. The game comes with 500 clue cards, plus eco-friendly dry erase boards, score cards, and a timer. You have to either draw or act out what’s on the card, stretching your own creativity and letting you know which of your friends is more familiar with terms like “golden shower” than they are with "spooning." $30
These lovely soy-based massage candles make a perfect gift that you can both benefit from. Burn the candle, blow out the flame and drizzle the melted soy wax on your partner for a sensual massage. Soy melts at a lower temperature so you won’t get burned. They come in a great selection of scents including lavender, pomegranate, and vanilla and the massage oil has a great consistency. The tin canister packaging also makes these great for travel. Available in 2 oz and 4 oz tins. $10-$15