Other Definitions of Sex Addiction
Researchers who reject the idea of an addiction model have used other terms over the years, including:- compulsive sexual behavior
- impulse control disorder
- hypersexaulity
- nymphomania
- styriasis
- out-of-control sexual behaviors
From the perspective of an individual struggling with a behavior they feel like they can’t control, what you call it may seem less important than how to stop it. But definitions are important as they often influence treatment. For example if you define sex addiction by the amount of sex you have, treatment will be designed to reduce your frequency of sexual behavior. If you define sex addiction as an inability to experience intimacy, treatment will try to build one’s capacity for sexual intimacy.
I Don’t Care About Definitions, I Think I’m a Sex Addict
Broadly speaking, if you are struggling with out-of-control sexual behaviors and think you may be a sex addict, it is always a good idea to consult with a licensed therapist. A lucrative industry has developed around the sex addiction model and you can easily find a therapist who is "certified" to treat sex addictions. The problem is that these therapists may not have training in sex therapy and may, in fact, have no education in human sexuality. While many therapists deal with sexual issues with clients, if you're looking for someone who has specialized in sexuality you should seek out a certified sex therapist. At a minimum make sure you understand the training and credentials of whoever you work with before engaging in treatment.Sources:
