Sexual Communication How Tos
How to Dirty Talk
Suggestions on how to introduce “dirty talk” to your relationship, with tips on expanding your vocabulary of sex words, getting comfortable with dirty talk, and recommendations for more reading.
How to Suggest a New Sexual Activity
Tips on how to talk with your partner about incorporating a new sexual activity into your sex life.
How to Raise Difficult Sexual Issues
It's never easy to bring up a sexual worry, complaint, or fear with a partner. Here are some things to think about before, and tips on how to start a conversation about a sexual issue.
How to Talk About Your Fetish
Talking to a partner about a fetish can feel very scary, and the truth is you don't know how they will react. Thinking carefully about it first is one way to go into the conversation a bit more prepared for any reaction.
Talking About Erectile Dysfunction
The drug company commercials make it look easy, but in real life it can feel scary even knowing where to start. Two articles for different conversations:
- How to Talk About Erectile Dysfunction with a Partner
- How to Talk with Your Doctor About Erectile Dysfunction
How to Talk About Public Displays of Affection
How can I talk to my partner about the difference between what they want and what I want when it comes to public displays of affection?
How to Talk About Sex and Infertility
Suggestions on where to start a conversation about your sex life while dealing with fertility issues.
How Do I Tell I Cheated
Disclosing an infidelity may not always be the best idea, but if you have decided to tell, here are some things to think about before telling.
How to Talk About Differences in Sex Drive
When one partner wants more or less sex than another it's easy to fall into a pattern of blame and avoidance. If you're ready to start talking, here are some tips on where to start a conversation about sex drive.
How to Talk to Your Doctor About Sexuality and Palliative Care
Whether you are the partner or the person receiving palliative care, if you have questions about sex it's your right to get answers from your doctor. Which isn't the same thing as saying it's easy. Here are some suggestions on talking with doctors.
Condom and Safer Sex How Tos
How to Find the Best Condoms
The best condom is the one that fits right and even adds to the pleasure of a sexual encounter (it's true, it can happen). Tips on finding the best condoms for you.
How to Use Male Condoms
Detailed instructions on the correct way to use a male condom.
How to Use the Female Condom
Detailed instructions on the correct way to use a female condom.
How to Put a Condom On With Your Mouth
If you can't or don't want to use your hands, or are just looking for a nifty parlor trick, here is your guide to putting on a condom with your mouth. Practice banana not included.
How to Use Dental Dams
When used properly dental dams can provide protection from sexually transmitted infections and make sex safer. Here’s how to properly use dental dams.
How to Figure Out Sexual Risk
What determines sexual risk? And if there's risk to everything, how do you decide whether doing something is too risky?
Sex and Your Body How Tos
How to Deal with Loss of Bowel and Bladder Control During Sex
If your dealing with loss of bladder and/or bowel control and it's getting in the way of your sex life, there are things you can do.
How to Stop Premature Ejaculation
Tips on how to stop premature ejaculation.
How to Do Kegels (for men's bodies)
Step by step instructions on doing kegel exercises to strengthen your PC muscles for men.
How to Do Kegels (for women's bodies)
Step by step instructions on doing kegel exercises to strengthen your PC muscles for women.
How to Manage Sexual Side Effects of Medication
Ideas on managing the sexual side effects of prescription medications.
How to Do a Testicular Self-Exam
A step by step guide to a testicular self-exam.
