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Valentine's Day Sex Toy Gift Guide

Sex Toy Gift Ideas for Valentine's Day

By , About.com Guide

Updated February 08, 2012

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If you're looking for one, Valentine's Day offers a great excuse to spice up your sex life by introducing a first, or thirty-first sex toy into the mix. Keep in mind that Valentine's Day is the busiest time of year for sex shops, so whether you're dropping into your local favorite sex shop, or shopping on line, don't be shy to ask for help and suggestions. Below you'll find my picks for classic and brand new sex toys that are perfect for Valentine's giving (including a Valentine for yourself).

Crave Duet Vibe

Image of the Crave Duet USB vibratorBabeland
Instead of paying double for dinner out, or for roses, or chocolates, or any of the things that get price jacked on February 13th, invest in something that will last and, like all great design, something that won't go out of style. This is a powerful clitoral vibrator that charges via any USB port. it's quiet, waterproof, and comes in a leather case.

Leaf Vitality Vibe

photo of leaf vitality vibratorBabeland
I'm not a fan of the green washing that is everywhere in the sex toy industry these days, but when a manufacturing makes a good toy, it's hard not to notice, even if their message about environmental awareness is bogus. Such is the case with the Leaf line of vibrators. These silicone vibrators have rechargeable batteries and describe their packaging as eco-friendly. But it's the look and and feel that recommends them to anyone who knows they like vibration and wants a toy that will inspire creativity. Vitality looks a little like a flower bulb and features two motors which can be controlled independently. Perfect for your advanced sex toy user and gardener Valentine.

LELO Flickering Massage Candle

LELO massage candlesBabeland

LELO's attention to detail in both materials and packaging deliver a beautiful massage candle that remains functional long after the wax is gone. A soy based candle, with Vitamin E, burns at a low temperature, and produces a long lasting oil that can be poured directly on the body for massage.  Scents include snow pear and cedar wood, black pepper and pomegranate, vanilla and creme de cacao, and each candle burns for 36 hours.  The ceramic jar that the candle comes in is surprisingly study and elegant, and can be re-used after the candle has burned down. 

Psychedelic Fur (Lined) Cuffs

photo of psychedelic fun fur restraintsGood Vibrations
If you and your Valentine are interested in exploring a little BDSM and either of you are fans of the 80s band of the same name you'll be pretty in pink with these leather wrist restraints lined with pink and black 'psychedelic' fun fur. You can loop them through themselves to make a set of handcuffs or add a bit of rope or a tether to secure your Valentine to a bed, a chair, a karaoke machine, whatever you've both agreed to...

Pin-Up Vibe

pin up vibrator in gift boxBabeland

A classic three speed bullet vibrator is packaged in collectible tins each with a pin up image on the lid, and with some "bombshell balm" inside.  The balm creates a cool tingly sensation on the skin (not recommended for those with sensitive skin or environmental allergies) but the real gift is the powerful vibrator in the non-threatening collectable packaging.  Pefect for first time vibe owners, pin up fans, and anyone who doesn't have a good place to keep their sex toys clean and dry.

Sqweel

sqweel vibratorLoveyHoney.com

This innovative sex toy is now more easily (and more affordably) available in North America.  Sqweel is a great sex toy for couples wanting to expand their communication about sex, as using it well demands communication.  But its hilarious look makes it hard not to want to goof around with. 

Hitachi Magic Wand

Hitachi Magic WandVibratex

Without a doubt the most important sex toy for couples. So versatile and long lasting, you'll never regret getting a Magic Wand. It's great for full body massage, perfect for solo sex or using on your partner, and it fits well between the two of you during sex play. Some people are turned off by the size, strength, and noise levels, but few complain once they've turned one on -- or is that, once they've been turned on by one?

 

I Dare You

I Dare You Seduction CardsChronicle Books

Not strictly speaking a sex toy, but a sex gift that belongs on everyone’s Valentine’s wish list. Each of the 30 cards in this beautifully produced box contain a suggested "seduction" crafted by Susie Bright to maximize possibilities and inspire exploration and sexual creativity. Each seduction opens up a world of sexual possibility and a thousand sexual conversations, without judgment or pedantry. Risqué, respectful, and ultimately just a rollicking good time, I Dare You is perfect for couples of all stripes who want to expand their sexual horizons and have hot fun sex while their doing it.

Share Dildo

Image courtesy of Come As You Are

In the spirit of Valentine's Day, consider the ways you can share the pleasure with Share, the newest silicone creation from German sex toy manufacturer Fun Factory. This double-ended dildo can be used on its own or in a harness, and like all Fun Factory products it looks as good as it feels. Plus, really, does anything say "Happy Valentine's Day" more than a dildo?

Bend Over Beginner Kit

Bend Over Beginner Strap On KitBabeland

If your Valentine’s configuration includes a boy with an interest in exploring anal play, this is a Valentine’s gift that will make him squeal (at least twice).  A soft fabric harness that comes with a removable vibrator for the wearer, plus two silicone dildos designed for beginner anal play.  Also known as pegging, this isn’t a gift for everyone, and it may be too much of a surprise if you haven’t talked about it first, but if you’ve both been looking for an excuse, Valentine’s Day is as good as any.


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