So many men are worried about the size of their penis that there's a syndrome named for it. And they aren't the only ones. Partners (of all genders) suffer when shame, fear, and anxiety about penis size dominates a man's thoughts about their sexual body.
Readers share stories of their own and their partner's struggles with penis size, and how they learned to deal with the shame, fear, and anxiety, and accept, or even love, the size they've got.
Unlearning What You Know
Eventually i got brave and dated some more i payed close attention to conversations, did research, and found that not all women are that shallow and it is true how you use it makes a lot of differenc…
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Orgasms with a small penis
I think the person who I was with at the moment just had a different way of moving and it was causing a friction with my clitoris. And of course, after that I wanted to try again and again, LOL. Afte…
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Big or small, you can make it work.
Well of course I want things to work for us in bed. I really like him and want our relationship to grow and to please him physically. Like I mentioned we started out slow and now we're having sex 3-4…
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Taking the Plunge After High School
senior year i told my self, who cares. so i found a gf and on the first date she asked me how big i was. i lied and said i was 6" but about a month goes by and shes ready. so that night i tell her, i…
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Grower Not Shower
I got married young and then divorced after 12 plus years. I timidly entered the dating world to discover that I was more than fine. Funny, people are always talking about 8, 9, or 12 inch penises as…
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My Penis Is Important
I was a virgin till 23 happy with solo sex. When a girl relieved me of my virginity she helped me gain maximum penetration. If she was prepared then i was prepared to accept my size. Only once has a …
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Big or small a man's penis is not near as important as his brain.
I was nervous when I had sex for the first time. I was afraid that my girlfriend and future wife would laugh at me. I put off sex for a long time and it almost cost me my wife of 19 years. When we di…
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Penis size has NOTHING to do with sexual adeptness.
He said he overcame his insecurity years before by learning male and female anatomy, and "practicing" with a woman he was in love with to determine ideal "moves" and ideal positions to make both of t…
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I Stopped Thinking and Found It Worked
Basically I wanted to have sex! If I was going to be shy forever I'd never get to do it, so you could say I got over it because I had to. I don't think I've ever asked a girlfriend what they think an…
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