What I struggled with most
Before I ever had sex I was worried that my size was too small. I was a late bloomer, the last to get pubic hair and the last to develop and guys in the showers in HS made fun of me which probably effected my self esteem. It wasn't anything in particular but I always worried and felt like it wasn't going to be enough.
What made me work on it
Basically I wanted to have sex! If I was going to be shy forever I'd never get to do it, so you could say I got over it because I had to. I don't think I've ever asked a girlfriend what they think and I haven't had any complaints. I wouldn't say that I love my self and if I could have a few more inches I would say yes to that, but I guess I just discovered that it isn't so bad and I'm probably kind of normal.
- enjoy sex and stop thinking about yourself while your doing it.
- getting good feedback from girlfriends about my abilities.
If I could say one thing to others about penis size now
just stop thinking about it and try to relax and enjoy sex.