What I struggled with most
i was very insecure for a number of years because of the many negative comments of small penises. At times i even wanted to kill myself thinking i was worthless, a couple of girls ditched me because of being small so for long periods of time i masturbated to get relief. I tried to convince myself that i wasn't that bad that these girls are just being shallow, but every time i got my confidence up it was shot down by some thoughtless comment by a friend who knew my predicament or some one else. Watching porn didn't help either so i just watched lesbians because I didn't want to be further embarrassed by seeing what I lack.
What made me work on it
Eventually i got brave and dated some more i payed close attention to conversations, did research, and found that not all women are that shallow and it is true how you use it makes a lot of difference. After a long time of sulking and hurting i said enough , i have a strong desire to please my woman and not a bad body to boot (low fat , muscular, energetic) So i said to myself ,i now have more experience and willingness to please my woman i know what i like to do to please her , foreplay , feet , tongue going down under slow sensual touching and setting a sexy environment helps too . Also communication helps , ask what she likes , taking chances isn't too bad, but talk about what each other likes.
- Research helps a lot also communication, and dont take on what may hurt you stay away from women that talk a lot of crap, study youre potential next date or even wife before you put youreself out there. I also try to maintain a good relationship w/her i strongly want to please her, not just me be pleased . It is not just the overwieght or undesirable weomen that accpept small men , some of the hotties are cool with it too.Looks, money, size isnt everything its what u like that counts, find someone that likes what u like as much as possible and forget what others think, they want to make u unhappy like they are.
If I could say one thing to others about penis size now
Don't let what others say bring you down, if you are in good shape, eat a good diet, even take herbals, and have a good sex drive and are wiling to please her as much as you want to be pleased then you are on your way to being more secure, and worry about other things that are more important