Finding the right sex toy can require some trial and error, and often our first sex toy experience isn't our best. But sometimes it is. Do you remember your first sex toy? What was it like making that first purchase, which toy did you buy, and how did it go? Buying your first sex toy can feel daunting, and scary. Whether you want to give a shout out to your favorite, or a buyer beware about one that did you wrong, share your stories about your first sex toy. Share Your Stories
- I'm male, and have had fine sex life for 60 years. My 1st vibe find was a standard WALH electric /with soft ,flat, flexible rubber head sold in major department stores.A 2speed of this type is all a guy needs, and is still under $20.00.
- —Guest know It.
- I am a male and use a dildo on a regular basis. I am married and my wife of 35 years has no problem with me sitting on my dildo. I started to use the dildo just for the fun of it and use a small anal plug first and gradually went larger till I have this dildo inside of me which is almost 3'' wide and 9'' long. I guess I had a fetish from when I was a boy just the idea of feeling something going inside of me felt normal. I have never tried anal sex with an other guy but i had the chance one time and I backed out, but would give it a try again if the opportunity arise.
- When I got my 1st paycheck & 1st personal bank account at 18, the 1st purchase I made was a sex toy from Amazon. I decided on a Don Wands 7-inch rainbow nubby glass dildo since it wouldn't ever require batteries or charging. It was the best $20 I spent that year! I fell in love and it has rocked my world & it still does to this day & probably will for years to come.
I've since bought a rechargeable pink vibrator from Amazon as well? I have killed the battery & it doesn't hold a charge, but boy, it was so much fun while it lasted. I used that thing for hours daily for a couple months. I totally killed it... I'm probably going to buy another one.
- —Guest Kelly
Nipplebands are fun
- I had wanted to share a story about how we spiced things up. My husband knew I liked my nipples played with, and he went online and found me Nipplebands, and he blindfolded me and put them on, and slowly touched my nipples. He teased me til I told him that I couldnt take it anymore. Very romantic, and hot. Of course he then pulled out some other toys, to make it an awesome experience. I love that he isnt intimated by toys, and knows how to use them.
- —Guest NiceNatasha
It was my sister's
- I was 13 or so and snoping at in my sisters house, in her room. I was going through her dressers and such, and then I came across her sex toys; she had 3 at the time. I thought "hey girls and gay guys like them so there has to be something to this" and the one I picked to use. It was a loud!! pink hard plastic vibe. It felt so good. Fast forward to the present: I am 23 and have 10 of my own sex toys.
- —Guest itsme
Plastic Classic Vibrator
- My first sex toy was one the "Classic" vibrators sort of phallic shaped without any ribbing, and a soft tip. Unfortunately, I broke it from using it too many times! Lol.
- —Guest NikMopper1
- I was in my parents room and looking for a book. I looked in thus cabinet and behind the books there was 2 plastic bags I pulled them out and there were probably 5 bullets and one male sex toy and lots of lube. So I said what the hell and put some lube on and used the male sex toy! It was the best orgasm ever! Can't wait to do it again!
- —Guest Bob
Being young and having fun
- I got my first sex toy when I was 16 from an adult store in my town. It was clear with pink beads around the maie hole where the fun took place. That night when everyone was sleeping in my house a gave it a try and it was a blast. I used it every day for at least a week and every time it got better. Today I'm on my fourth one, a Doc Johnson.
- —Guest Tim
Glass vs lelo
- My first toy was a simple double ended glass dildo but it was a bit small and only worked for about a month then I went and got a 250$ lelo vibrator and I definetally got my money's worth. Lelo is the best most quiet brand ever. I bought my first one at 15 and the next at 16. I look old for my age so I had no problems getting them.
- —Guest Miss hunnie
Hitachi Magic Wand
- About 6 or 7 years ago,,...I happened to use a friend of mines vibrator looking thing plugged in the wall with a big white bulb head.
I had time to try it out and it ended up being a Hitachi Magic Wand. I thought hmmmm this look interesting. So i tried it against my penis head and it felt incredible..I ended up having a fantastic shuddering orgasm. I ended up incorporating it in our sex play and now I have my own next to my computer that I use almost everyday. I'd highly recommend everyone guy and girl buy and keep a Hitachi Magic Wand. This will bring pleasure unheard of !!!
- —Guest Danrun
Fleshlight (Yummy! Feeling All Over)
- I’m 27 now (2011), but when I was 19 I saw a rather strange looking device being advertised on the Internet and decided to give it a try—as curiosity won the day. I bought my first sex toy, a Fleshlight, and it felt soo…soo…soo very good, and always feels like the first time, so yummy good! I had a mirror in one of my apartments and noticed how crazy my smile and facial expressions were! Lol. When I was 19 I would masturbate 30 minutes a day, once a day, with my fleshlight. Now, I tend to grab 2 fleshlight sessions a day at about 60 minutes each. My work and social calendar is such that I can fit in these two hours of sex toy use a day, and not have it negatively impact other areas of my life. My friends always ask why I’m so upbeat and positive…mmm! Probably some brain chemistry… The fleshlight was my first sex toy, and to this day I have not found it’s equal. Cheers! And hope this helps
What a Cutie!
- Im 19 soon, and me and my VERY SHY boyfriend went to a sex shop today. He was so shy, hes the one that wanted to go there, but almost chicked out because he didnt want anyone to see him. Even though weve been dating for 5 years now! Anyway, we were quick, since i saw something i liked almost right away. There it was, a water proof purple 'forever yours' 6 inch vibrater. It was so cute, and came in purple or pink. Swirls and hearts all over it. And believe me, it was the BEST 25 bucks ive ever spent xD
- —Guest PurpleParadise
Boyfriend and Me
- My first toy was purchased less than a year ago. I'll be 19 in 22 days, so when I was 18. My boyfriend and I talked about getting one for when he's not around, as a joke, but we ended up going to a sex shop and buying a vibrator together. I'm very glad we did.
- —Guest VivianVal
My First Strap On
- When I was 45 a girlfriend used a strap-on dildo on me. I'm 64 now, I wish my wife would do that.
- —Guest iser59
Ode to the Rabbit Vibe
- OhoooOO That Rabbit!!!
Three weeks ago I was make the introduction
to my first toy of the adult kind of function.
I'm pretty sure this will become a habit.
Yea I met that rascally rabbit.
Well i figured I was ready to go,
to settle in for thirty minutes or so.
I licked that rascally rabbit on its soft pink head
and then I took that rabbit to my bed.
I slipped it far beneath my covers
to see what rabbits are like as lovers.
"Slow and steady wins the race."
To hell with that!!
Let the rabbit set the pace.
Thirty seconds later it's like I was dreaming.
That rascally rabbit had me screaming!
Oh that rabbit gave me what for'
but I told that rabbit
"You know this means war!"
I love that rabbit.
I'm not telling jokes.
With that being said,
"Tha-tha-tha-that's all folks!"
True story - Kisses
- —Guest Mel