Readers Respond: Your Sex Tips and Tricks

Great sex isn't all about technique, but sometimes what we need to spice things up is a tip or trick we haven't thought of before, something to get our own creative juices flowing. If you've hit on a great technique, or you have a sex tip you think should be shared with the world, share it here. There's no financial gain, but think of the positive sex karma.

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Grow it, Shave it

My wife and I have been married for several years and have gotten use to the groomed look and feel of each others genitals. It was boring. Deciding to grow it all back was fun and sexy at the same time. Burying my face in a full bush was such a fresh idea. And not shaving myself for a few months reminded me of puberty growth all over again. After a few months its fun to go back and shave it all off for another fresh start.

—Guest Journeyman

Don't forget the Kissing

Kissing is the best part of sex. Take the time to enjoy each other while kissing. Running your hands thru his / her hair or up and down the back. Maybe some heaving petting or dry humping before you get into the naked act. Most people forget about kissing it is the best thing in the world.

—Guest Love Kissing

mastribation tips

Sometimes will take a q-tip with lubricant on it and gently massage my clitoris . It may sound strange but it feels nice.

—Guest Mandi

new to oral sex

I am young but have been with my husband for many years I just reacently open my self up to giving him oral and he very much enjoys when he is in the back of my throat and I move side to side as I hum my favorite song. May sound a bit silly but humming with as I send him deep inside my throat always makes his eyes roll back!!!

—Guest new to this

edging too long

The other day my girlfriend was edging me for what seemed like an hour.After I finally had an orgasm I felt exausted for the rest of the night. It was great getting all those peaks then comming down but I think I prefer a more rapid conclusion and happy ending.

—plush43

Edging a man

I find I get the greatest erotic response when a woman takes charge. Being restrained with a woman who loves to make me crazy is wildly erotic for both of us. Since my movements are limited, hers can be incredible teasing. I could provide many examples, but suffice it to say a woman who knows what she is doing and truly loves seeing her man in the throes of ecstasy is a combo that leads to great sex.

—Guest Thrilledbyt

love to have my wife watch

I love to have my wife watch me masturbate. The erotic pleasure is intense. When I look at her and she is watching me I feel an very strong reaction of pleasure. It is an emotional high that I get which only makes the ultimate orgasm better.

—Guest seadog1221

Fellatio tip

Men like stimulation, so therefore if you get a different material on it like silk gently rap it around the shaft and stimulate the shaft by pulling on both sides of the ribbon while taking him in your mouth a sucking on his penis while liking his head while he's in your mouth.. this will make him crumble with pleasure...

—Guest oral for men

It's All About the Words

Words can make or break good intercourse, I find the lady who can talk about it in detail most wonderful.

—Guest duggers, OZ

Show what you like

I've found that if you show your man what tongue actions you like on the head of his penis, he'll have no problems acting it out on your clit.

—Guest Pandora

Oral

A clitoris is the female version of a penis. After some teasing, best way to get 'er done, so to speak, is to suck the clitoris while rubbing your tongue on it. Listen and look for signs she is enjoying different motions. You can use your fingers to grab around the clitoris and squeeze lightly, so the clit is protruding more. When penetrating with a finger or two, press on the G spot, then pull out. Fellatio is something many see as just a mouth imitating a pussy (or anus). Up and down. In and out. That takes all the fun out of it. Best results occur, when you lick it like a lollipop. Or ice cream. Circular motions around the head, before taking it all in your mouth. Don't forget to use your hands, massaging, rubbing, tickling, maybe a bit of scratching. Look and listen for signs he's enjoying it. When performing either, never act as though it's a duty. Smile. Make sounds. If your partner is laying there soundless and motionless, ask them what you can do to make it better.

—Guest Tongue Teaser

Oral Sex

My husband lays next to me, kisses me, puts two fingers inside of me and slowly moves inside and out, traces his mouth to my nipples and sucks on them, and when I am aroused and ready to orgasm, I join him and masturbate. Both very vulnerable and amazing of an experience.

—Guest inlovewife

Oral Sex Technique

Suck and bite the clit gently, simultaneously use a finger to rub the g-spot, then sort of lick and suck the vaginal lips and finally move the tongue inside. Thereafter, in about 15 mins time, I feel the swelling of the vaginal walls, the pressure mounting. I could also feel the contraction of the walls. Really a wonderful experience.

—Guest sarum

anal masturbation

I never knew what it was but I used a finger or two and I had something that resembled a climax. now I know what this could be about, like people said many women do not like and for straight men maybe just a new sexual diversity. I am a man.

—Guest richneu4

Toe Sucking

I like it when the man is lying on his back, you're on top, facing downwards, one of your leg is on the floor, for you to balance. Then move slowly while sucking his toes. He'll receive the best sex ever!

—Guest Chle Tiny