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Readers Respond: Your Sex Tips and Tricks

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From the article: Stop and Go Sex Play

Great sex isn't all about technique, but sometimes what we need to spice things up is a tip or trick we haven't thought of before, something to get our own creative juices flowing. If you've hit on a great technique, or you have a sex tip you think should be shared with the world, share it here. There's no financial gain, but think of the positive sex karma.

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Fellatio tip

Men like stimulation, so therefore if you get a different material on it like silk gently rap it around the shaft and stimulate the shaft by pulling on both sides of the ribbon while taking him in your mouth a sucking on his penis while liking his head while he's in your mouth.. this will make him crumble with pleasure...
—Guest oral for men

It's All About the Words

Words can make or break good intercourse, I find the lady who can talk about it in detail most wonderful.
—Guest duggers, OZ

Show what you like

I've found that if you show your man what tongue actions you like on the head of his penis, he'll have no problems acting it out on your clit.
—Guest Pandora

Oral

A clitoris is the female version of a penis. After some teasing, best way to get 'er done, so to speak, is to suck the clitoris while rubbing your tongue on it. Listen and look for signs she is enjoying different motions. You can use your fingers to grab around the clitoris and squeeze lightly, so the clit is protruding more. When penetrating with a finger or two, press on the G spot, then pull out. Fellatio is something many see as just a mouth imitating a pussy (or anus). Up and down. In and out. That takes all the fun out of it. Best results occur, when you lick it like a lollipop. Or ice cream. Circular motions around the head, before taking it all in your mouth. Don't forget to use your hands, massaging, rubbing, tickling, maybe a bit of scratching. Look and listen for signs he's enjoying it. When performing either, never act as though it's a duty. Smile. Make sounds. If your partner is laying there soundless and motionless, ask them what you can do to make it better.
—Guest Tongue Teaser

Oral Sex

My husband lays next to me, kisses me, puts two fingers inside of me and slowly moves inside and out, traces his mouth to my nipples and sucks on them, and when I am aroused and ready to orgasm, I join him and masturbate. Both very vulnerable and amazing of an experience.
—Guest inlovewife

Oral Sex Technique

Suck and bite the clit gently, simultaneously use a finger to rub the g-spot, then sort of lick and suck the vaginal lips and finally move the tongue inside. Thereafter, in about 15 mins time, I feel the swelling of the vaginal walls, the pressure mounting. I could also feel the contraction of the walls. Really a wonderful experience.
—Guest sarum

anal masturbation

I never knew what it was but I used a finger or two and I had something that resembled a climax. now I know what this could be about, like people said many women do not like and for straight men maybe just a new sexual diversity. I am a man.
—Guest richneu4

Toe Sucking

I like it when the man is lying on his back, you're on top, facing downwards, one of your leg is on the floor, for you to balance. Then move slowly while sucking his toes. He'll receive the best sex ever!
—Guest Chle Tiny

Pubic Hair Grooming

I prefer a woman that is well trimmed. Does not have to be 100% shaved but the shorter the better. Makes it easier to see and I don't get a long hair in my mouth.
—Guest jetfixer737

The sweetest thing

The sweetest thing you could give to your women is softness and gentleness
—Jenniferchen82214

Vanilla Sex

I have found that a few drops of vanilla essence rubbed onto the vagina enhances its taste, I can stay on a vanilla scented vagina for hours, The two tastes together are so utterly wonderful.
—Guest duggers

Use Your Hands

Men reading this (and I wish my husband was) do this for you wife. These are excellent instructions. I've tried to gently tell my husband, but all he seems to think there is for women is oral sex. Don't get me wrong I like it but a good hand job can have me there in less than 2 minutes. .
—Guest Genevieve

Cunnilingus Tip

I have had great response when I shake my head back and forth while at the same time flicking my tongue up and down.
—Guest Tony Whitmore

the sweetest gift

The sweetest thing you can give to your loved is a nice slow loving hand job.
—Emeraldjasper

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