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Readers Respond: Your Sex Tips and Tricks

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Updated September 03, 2011

Great sex isn't all about technique, but sometimes what we need to spice things up is a tip or trick we haven't thought of before, something to get our own creative juices flowing. If you've hit on a great technique, or you have a sex tip you think should be shared with the world, share it here. There's no financial gain, but think of the positive sex karma.

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Put a Ring on it.

It's amazing what one single cock ring can do. I prefer putting one around the base of my penis and around my balls. It makes the penis rock solid which looks amazing for your partner and it adds stimulation that results in the best orgasms I've ever had. They're body trembling good. I recommend using a stretchy ring. It's easier to put on and take off.
—Guest NorCalBoy

Try Pegging

My wife convinced me to try pegging. We started slow, used lots of lube & omg am I an eager receiver. Wow guys don't know what they are missing. We do get into the dom/sub a bit.
—Guest HAPPY MAN

Blowjob Tips

Pleasing your man with a great blow job is of prime importance if you want to fully satisfy your man and make him like putty in your hands, so pay close attention. When giving a great BJ you have to consider your blow job's speed, rhythm, and pressure levels. These are the most critical elements. If you go too slowly you're not going to stimulate the penis enough, if you get into an erratic rhythm it's just not as pleasurable for your man, and if you pressure levels are either too high or too low then you're not giving a great BJ. Experiment. That's the key. And practice, if you don't have access to a man then practice on a banana or a carrot, perhaps even a cucumber – but don't get one that's too large! When you're sucking your partner's penis it's all about simulating vaginal sex. You're basically trying to make your mouth mimic your vagina. So think about the speed, rhythm and pressures that your vagina exerts and how those make your man orgasm.
—Guest Sarah

"Free Parking"

I am a "BBW" who actually enjoys the missionary position. There is nothing like embracing belly to belly with my man's soft penis parked between the deep fleshy lips of my vagina. We carefully place the head (glans) either dead on, or just next to my clitoris. We do a slow sensuous grind and usually we both come. Sometimes he even becomes partially erect so it's a great foreplay technique. The orgasm and the intimacy are wonderful, and his soft penis does not irritate my lady parts.
—Guest venus

Tooth brush

I find that using a toothbrush ((electric))works the best
—Guest POOLCAT

Grow it, Shave it

My wife and I have been married for several years and have gotten use to the groomed look and feel of each others genitals. It was boring. Deciding to grow it all back was fun and sexy at the same time. Burying my face in a full bush was such a fresh idea. And not shaving myself for a few months reminded me of puberty growth all over again. After a few months its fun to go back and shave it all off for another fresh start.
—Guest Journeyman

Don't forget the Kissing

Kissing is the best part of sex. Take the time to enjoy each other while kissing. Running your hands thru his / her hair or up and down the back. Maybe some heaving petting or dry humping before you get into the naked act. Most people forget about kissing it is the best thing in the world.
—Guest Love Kissing

mastribation tips

Sometimes will take a q-tip with lubricant on it and gently massage my clitoris . It may sound strange but it feels nice.
—Guest Mandi

new to oral sex

I am young but have been with my husband for many years I just reacently open my self up to giving him oral and he very much enjoys when he is in the back of my throat and I move side to side as I hum my favorite song. May sound a bit silly but humming with as I send him deep inside my throat always makes his eyes roll back!!!
—Guest new to this

edging too long

The other day my girlfriend was edging me for what seemed like an hour.After I finally had an orgasm I felt exausted for the rest of the night. It was great getting all those peaks then comming down but I think I prefer a more rapid conclusion and happy ending.
—plush43

Edging a man

I find I get the greatest erotic response when a woman takes charge. Being restrained with a woman who loves to make me crazy is wildly erotic for both of us. Since my movements are limited, hers can be incredible teasing. I could provide many examples, but suffice it to say a woman who knows what she is doing and truly loves seeing her man in the throes of ecstasy is a combo that leads to great sex.
—Guest Thrilledbyt

love to have my wife watch

I love to have my wife watch me masturbate. The erotic pleasure is intense. When I look at her and she is watching me I feel an very strong reaction of pleasure. It is an emotional high that I get which only makes the ultimate orgasm better.
—Guest seadog1221

Fellatio tip

Men like stimulation, so therefore if you get a different material on it like silk gently rap it around the shaft and stimulate the shaft by pulling on both sides of the ribbon while taking him in your mouth a sucking on his penis while liking his head while he's in your mouth.. this will make him crumble with pleasure...
—Guest oral for men

It's All About the Words

Words can make or break good intercourse, I find the lady who can talk about it in detail most wonderful.
—Guest duggers, OZ

Show what you like

I've found that if you show your man what tongue actions you like on the head of his penis, he'll have no problems acting it out on your clit.
—Guest Pandora

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