Imagine you could only engage in one sexual behavior for the rest of your life, one single sex act and no other. What would it be?
In some ways, sex is like air. When you have an abundant supply, and easy access, it's the easiest thing in the world to take for granted. But if your supply gets suddenly cut off, it will make you stand up and take notice like nothing else. Metaphors aside even though our sexual options are not usually completely cut off, many of us do live our lives without having certain kinds of sex. Whether it's for religious, cultural, physical, monetary, emotional, or other reasons, we don't all have access to every kind of sex play we may want to explore. Those of us with greater access can forget this at times.
This week's sex tip is meant to encourage you to stop taking sex for granted, and to think more creatively about the sex you have.
Over the course of the next week spend some time thinking about the different kinds of sex acts you like to engage in. You can make a mental list, noting which behaviors you do more often, which are "special occasion" sex acts, and which you may have tried once but didn't care for. Then, for this exercise, you have to make a decision.
Try to imagine going a week, a month, a year, only doing one sexual thing (it could be with yourself, with one partner, or with a dozen partners, but always the same physical act). What sex act would you choose?
If you feel like sharing, leave a comment below and let us know what you'd choose. If you have someone you're comfortable talking about sex with, share your thoughts, and ask them what they'd choose. You might be surprised by the responses, and you may even find your own thinking changes as you take time to imagine
As always, have fun!
this sounds like some sort of sex purgatory. nonetheless, if i could spend a week or the rest of my life on a deserted island receiving blow jobs, i’d be a happy guy.
I am not sure what I would want to engage in, but I would want it to be mutually pleasurable action with a partner. I would not want to be stuck on an island and only be giving head. I like it but not that much.
giving cunnilingus…. can’t get (give) enough of it
Ok so how many women want to join Duane on his island? LOL
It all depends on how you define “sex” I guess. What physical act would I pick for the year? I think I’d have to go with “touch each other.”
I mean that pretty much covers everything under one “act”
69–give and recieve!!
Riding Dirty!!! Both parties involved are guaranteed to be good to go this way – plus most times its a good workout for the woman — depending on how she ‘sits’
Intercourse, with her on her back, her butt on a pillow, her legs on my shoulders and me sliding into her while I am on my knees, or standing if she’s on a table, at just the right height.
Wow… tough question! Besides hanging out with Duane… I like the touching each other! Does this include kissing??? I really love that!
I personaly would love to receive BJ’s every day at least twice a day. My wife does this for me now anyway but I still love it. Being sucked off is like a prolonged orgasm for me. No blow job is a bad blow job. love sucks but true love swallows!
I would surely want to be with Jessica. Going down on a woman is the best.
I am sure this is going to sound corny or silly but I truly believe the best way to turn a woman on is and keep her turned on is emotionally. Having the “love of my life” in my arms is what I would truly miss most of all. The safety, the comfort and the security of knowing she’ll always be there for me no matter what!
To have the security and warmth of my wife hunging up to me at night and falling alseep in each others arms knowing all is right with the world even when I know it isn’t. To see her smile when we wake, to feel her touch, to feel out bonding…
This is heaven on earth…but then a blow job is great too!
Wowww. I don’t get to choose very often. Mostly I’ve done masturbation because women don’t seem very interested. For years at a time. Your hypothetical of not getting sex isn’t that hypothetical. It seems to involve a lot of insincere charisma— the ability to charm someone into thinking that you are so enamored of them that she will think you’re going to marry her without actually saying so. I have offered vulnerability, respect for their equal importance as people, and my best and most generous level of friendship as the basis for relationships. Perhaps my wooing sounds too much like the men who are insincere. Anyway, I would pick basic missionary position, but with kissing and caressing all over her body first.
WOW…you mean I GET TO DECIDE and not my wife. Well hell, I would definately choose something other than what we do every time we have sex, which is about once a month. Probably touching eachother EQUALLY would be my pick of the litter.
Being with Duane would be great but what about pleasuring him. No, if I had to choose it would be with me on my back and having him kneel and hold my legs at his waist or shoulders, so that we could both experience great sex and see the pleasure on our faces and we would also have hands free to explore, caress, push, pull ….
I would have to go with Paula, incredible sex for me is when I fully and completely excite and pleasure my wife and lover.
I’d have to say receiving anal.
No, I’m not gay, but it’d keep me interested, for sure.
This gives pleasure to assume the things. We can dream of any thing like to be at an Iceland with your girl friend and to have sex but in realty it’s very difficult to retain the interest of your partner in you and the things you do.
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Every guy must know these facts.
It’s difficult to find educated people on this topic, but you seem like you know what you’re
talking about! Thanks