The weather’s finally turned warm where I live, which means it’s a perfect time to be out in the garden. But I'm more likely to recognize polyamory than polymorpha I thought this week's sex tip could be garden themed in name only.
Edging isn’t a term I would have ever chosen for a sexual activity, the image I get in my head is of someone on a ledge hugging the wall trying not to fall. Because I have a fear of heights it’s not a sexy image, but it’s not that far off the mark when it comes to sexual edging.
In sex, edging refers to the postponement of an orgasm. It’s a kind of sex play which you can do on your own or with/to a partner where you get right up to the point of orgasm, but then pull back, letting your body relax and cool down a bit, before you start getting turned on again. Many people report that edging results in larger and more intense orgasms, and in fact it’s a great way to get a more precise bead on your own unique sexual response. Many of us know generally when we’re getting to the point of being done, but fewer notice the subtle physical, emotional, and psychological signs of impending sexual release.
So this weekend why not try some edging? Just keep it out of the community gardens. Unless you have consent from all your fellow gardeners, in which case, email me the address of your community garden.
Sex Tip: How to Edge