Masturbation offers some of the most fertile ground for developing sexual fantasy scenarios. When we’re masturbating we are less likely to censor our thoughts and feelings, and that’s what we need to develop our fantasy life.
We tend to think of sexual role playing as involving at least two people, but most great fantasies start in our heads, and then somehow make it out to the real world.
If you’re trying to come up with sexual fantasy scenarios your masturbation fantasies can be a great place to start. But it can work the other way around. If you’ve thought of a scenario you’d like to try, first give it a test run during masturbation. Play out your fantasy at least a few times while masturbating to see where it goes. You may not choose to share everything that happens in your mind with your partner, but it’s a great way to get the juices flowing.
