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Sex How Tos

Step by Step Guides to Sexual Techniques and Sex Toys

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Updated August 18, 2011

Good sex is never just a matter of technique. Knowing how to have sex means more than just knowing the right way to move, the right thing to say, or the right product to buy. In fact, the better you get at sex, the more I would say you learn that there is no right or wrong at all. Sex is constantly changing as we do. But it's nice to have somewhere to start any new exploration, and these sex how tos are meant as just that, a good place to start.

Sexual Technique How Tos

How to Mutual Masturbation
Mutual masturbation can be a fun, functional, and educational addition to any couples sex life. Whether you’re a shy introvert or a happy exhibitionist, learn tips for including mutual masturbation into your sexual repertoire.

How to Masturbate (men's bodies)
Masturbation tips and techniques for those with men's body parts.

How to Masturbate (women's bodies)
Masturbation tips and techniques for those with women's body parts.

Nipple Stimulation How Tos
The breasts and nipples can be highly sensitive and sexually pleasing parts of the body for people of all genders. Tips on providing nipple stimulation with just the right amount of enthusiasm.

How to Tips for Clitoral Stimulation
Whether it is your own or someone else's, here are tips on how to provide clitoral stimulation.

How to Perform Cunnilingus
Tips on performing cunnilingus on a woman, also known as oral sex, giving head, and going down on a woman. Suggestions for oral sex techniques and a step by step guide.

How to Perform Fellatio
Tips on performing fellatio on a man, also known as oral sex, giving head, and giving a blow job. Suggestions for oral sex techniques and a step by step guide.

How to Have Male Multiple Orgasms
An introductory how-to about male multiple orgasms. Explains the importance of breathe, awareness, and PC muscles to have non-ejaculatory orgasms that can prolong sexual pleasure and increase male sexual potential.

How to Have Sexual Intercourse
Sex tips on how to have sexual intercourse, including suggestions on positioning, pacing, g spot and prostate stimulation during intercourse, and how to have orgasms during intercourse.

How to Erotic Touch
A step by step guide to exploring sexual touch with your partner. Ideas on how to increase intimacy through sexual touch, and tips on ways to touch that will deepen your knowledge of your partner’s body and sexual response.

How to Fantasy Sexual Role Play
Information and ideas on sexual fantasy role play, creating scenarios, developing characters, finding costumes and props, and setting ground rules for safe and fun sexual fantasy role play.

How to Have Orgasms Through Intercourse Orgasms don't come easily through intercourse. But that doesn't mean they don't come at all. Here are some tips on having orgasms through intercourse.

How to Tips for Pegging
Tips on pegging or the act of male anal penetration by a female partner. Includes ideas on talking about pegging, toys to choose for pegging, and safer sex considerations.

How to Have Anal Sex
The basic steps to having safe and pleasurable anal sex.

How to Tips for Anal Masturbation
Tips on exploring anal sex through anal masturbation. Anal masturbation techniques.

How to Kiss
There are few universal rules to kissing, but here are some basic tips on how to kiss for the anxious and uninitiated.

How to Tips for First Intercourse
Tips on making intercourse for the first time more pleasurable, less awkward, and less painful.

How to Tips for Edging
Tips on edging, a sexual activity that involves postponing orgasm.

How to Give a Man a Handjob
A step-by-step guide to the fine art of manual stimulation.

How to Give a Woman a Handjob
A step-by-step guide to the fine art of manual stimulation.

How to Take Erotic Photographs
Tips from erotic photographer Chris Ablet on taking your own erotic photographs.

How to Light a Room for Sex
Learn how to play with light and shadow using whatever light you've got to create an erotic and playful scene.

How to Find Your G Spot
A guide to finding your own, or someone else's, g spot.

How to Prostate Massage
A step by step guide to finding the prostate gland and prostate stimulation. Sometimes called the male g-spot or “prostate milking”, prostate massage can be intensely pleasurable for many men.

Sex When You Work From Home
Working at home can be a real challenge to a healthy and happy sex life. Here are some tips on how to maintain the balance whether your sex life is solo or partnered.

Sex Toy How Tos

Very few sex toys come with instructions (if they did, it would give new meaning to the acronym RTFM!) Some people will feel immediately comfortable exploring their new toys and the many options available, but for the rest of us, here are some ideas on ways to use sex toys, along with safety information to reduce problems and extend the life of your toys.

How to Use a Vibrator (women's bodies)

How to Use a Vibrator (men's bodies)

How to Use a Dildo

How to Use Anal Beads

How to Use Penis Rings

How to Use Rabbit Vibrators

How to Use Lubricant

How to Choose Adult Movies

How to Find a Good Sex Shop

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