Bad Sex – When she doesn’t feel anything
- My wife has MS. She has no feeling from her shoulders to her knees. It is not her fault – it is the condition. We have been together 20 years. When we first met the sex was incredible, but what made it best for me was when she enjoyed it. As she has lost sensitivity, I have lost my desire. So my hand has become my best friend. We still cuddle – it is not like a good orgasm.
- —Guest GuestMedic
its all in your head
- Bad sex is when your bf shows you a pair of leopard g string panties but tells you that they are for him. Good sex is when you feel so horny and sexy that you forget alll your insecurities and all your problems and your only desire is to fuck. Not even to cum but just to fuck...and fuck. The guy is not concentrating on whether hes gonna make you cum or not and your both in a trance.
- —Guest sexbot
No rythm, no movement
- I had a terrible partner - no rhythm, bad kisser (sloppy, bad aim), no sense of me or my body, ignored me when I tried to show her my erogenous spots; above all though: she seemed to try to actively cancel out my attempts to get some kind of in and out motion, and would constantly try to close and straighten out her legs. It was like she'd try to actively cancel out any rhythm. Plus, even after we were exclusive and tested free of STIs, she insisted on a condom at all times (huge sensation duller/killer). So, um, yeah, I'd go limp. Meanwhile, she insisted on trying for simultaneous orgasm at all times. Oh, and she was too sensitive to keep going if she came first. Yeah, that was horrible sex: it was like trying to have sex with someone who actively fought you, every step of the way.
- —Guest Fred
Conventional Sex?
- When a woman demand you only "Conventional Sex", no foreplay, nothing before, only pump... that is sad and very bad sex, the worst was I was doing it for half hour, I felt that I was used but what the hell. I least if I am going to be used, use me well!!!!
- —Guest The No Conventional Guy
Bad sex = feeling empty and sad after
- Bad sex is when you are with someone you love... are maybe even engaged to... are building a life around... when it started out intense and exciting between you, but now there's fighting and misery, and although you are unhappy you just can't picture your life without her, so you stay... bad sex is when you initiate it because without it you feel neglected, and although you work hard to make sure she has an orgasm, all either one of you can think about are the rotten things you said to each other in the last blowout, and no matter what happens in bed, you are left feeling sad, empty and unfulfilled. That's bad sex.
- —Guest Confused
When Size Gets in the Way
- Size is not supposed to be everything but what happens when your partner is huge and you try to take him on....you perform all the sexual tricks he wants but he has no patience.....that's BaD SEX
- —Guest strawberry
lack of chemistry
- My last gf would catch herself up if she thought I was heading towards an orgasm faster than her and we always both came usually at the right time as in her just before me. But with this new girl i don't feel right. It's like my own orgasm is only mediocre because she's not gonna cum... I said sorry and shes like no really i still enjoy it a lot but it's a shitty consolation...
- —Guest nocrush
When it isn't mutual pleasure
- My boyfriend and I were getting tired of the same ole sex routine so I did some searching to find some exciting positions and found one that sounds super promising (CAT). I pitch it to my guy and he says, Yeah that sounds nice for you but not so good for me so no. He won't even try it... The worst sex is when he doesn't even care enough to want to pleasure you, even though you do things to pleasure him ALL THE TIME. Sadness :(
- —Guest Hope "For Better Sex" Jones
Lack of foreskin
- Male circumcision causes chafing and discomfort for both parties. Foreskin restoration can greatly improve the experience. For information, see Sex as Nature Intended It by Kristen O'Hara. For information on foreskin restoration, see the TLC Tugger by Ron Low.
- —Guest Thank you
Just not good
- Sex is sometimes amazing, but with this one girl I was seeing it was boring, and not just for one reason. Maybe it was lack of chemistry or whatever. 1. Bad kisser. Not terrible, but sloppy. It hurt when she sucked my tongue. 2. No kissing of the neck or other part of the body. No blowjobs. Ever. She stopped me from eating her out everytime even though I have gotten plenty of girls off with my mouth alone many times. 3. It always hurt when I entered her and for the first 5 minutes of sex. She is not a virgin and she was sufficiently wet beforehand. She apologized for not being able to take me. I am above average and some girls call me big (wide) but I am not huge enough for this to be a problem. 4. Only missionary position. I tried on the side and her half on her stomach but doggy and anything else hurt too much. 5. She gave me a few signs she got pleasure, but they didn't last too long. A lot of time I was wondering if she was fully enjoying it even though she said she was.
- —Guest gottagetlayid
All sex is bad
- Now when you're having sex with someone you are madly in love with and he is madly in love with you and you are married and have four beautiful children it feels like ecstasy. You are on top of the world. But then the next day when he seems to have forgotten you and he's off playing video games and you start to remember that he had several sexual partners before you met and you had none, and you feel like you want to die, then you realize all sex is bad. You only want it it because that is nature's way of tricking you into re-populating the species.
- —Guest havingabadday
It's Simple
- Bad sex is mechanical sex. It's plumbing sex, full of technique and focused on 'best practice'. Bad sex is uncaring sex, disconnected sex. Bad sex is when you have it for all the wrong reasons (and there are a million wrong reasons). Bad sex is empty sex. Bad sex is meaningless sex. Sex is communication. Sex is an activity performed within a context created by a relationship. That context is both historical and anticipatory. It is exactingly real and it is a dream of what may be. If there is no relationship...no context....then sex as an activity which has meaning only within context, becomes nothing. It becomes everything everyone here describes. Sex becomes Bad....the Communication no more than noise. But, given Context....then anything is possible. The monomaniacal mistake is in thinking that sex is a singularity. Is sex sweaty and animalistic? Certainly. Is it ethereal and transcendent? Absolutely. Is it experimental & exciting, traditional and soothing?
- —Zalmar
the differrence between ooh and ahh
- what is the difference between oooh and aahhhh? two inches......either size of being able to hit that spot makes a big difference...its not worth it to me not to have an orgasm after bringing my partner over the top every time
- —Guest ice
Never Getting to Have Sex Is Bad Sex
- The only bad sex is losing my beloved long-distance girlfriend (or WORSE, local girlfriend) to a rival before we even HAD sex!
- —Vallin
Twiddlin my toes in frustration
- Bad sex is giving the man my all...sucking his dick to mindblowing ecstasy then twiddling my toes in frustration as I wait in vain for his 'out of this world pussy job'...screw that...best i masturbate alone at home
- —Guest dontneedit
