From the article: Position Tips for Avoiding Painful Sex
Most of us don’t think about sex positions until they don’t work anymore. If you live with temporary or chronic pain, or are experiencing painful sex for another reason, finding the right sex position is crucial to enjoying sex. Have you found a position that works particularly well for you? Sex positions aren’t just for intercourse. Share your ideas on pain-free (or at least pain-reduced) sex positions for solo sex, intercourse, and all kinds of sex play. Share Your Tips
tilted pelvis
- The Missionary position does it for me! If my husband and I try to stand up, then do it from behind, it hurts b/c I have a tilted pelvis.
- —SuzyScorp
avoid pain
- the person being penetrated gets ontop of the one doing the penetration so she has control of the angle and length of penetration and adjusts accordingly.
- —Emeraldjasper
My partner is gentle, but just too big
- He never wants to hurt me but he's so big and I'm small. Me on top works well to control depth, or on my back with my legs down. Being extremely turned on before penetration starts is key. After a year or so your body will Adjust too. If theres love, keep trying
- —Guest COral
Best position to avoid back pain
- The best way I have found to avoid worsening back pain is to spoon and gradually start turning over to lie on your back while your partner stays in the spooning position. Of course this is for the partner being penetrated. A little practice and I promise it will work for you.
- —Guest Anonymous
Sex and Pain Are Opposites
- A person creating pain, is not your partner! The right partner never ever creates pain!
- —raginald
sex
- Kissing up and around the neck then down the stomach and straight back up. He begs for it.
- —Guest kirsty

